COUNSELING: Week 3 Wrap-up & Final Quiz
- Robert Parry
- Sep 15, 2023
- 3 min read
It’s been a long week. We covered the overall Four Stages of Counseling, then we got deep into each stage and took a look at the new DA 4856. Let’s do a review, then dive into the Weekly Quiz.
Here’s a quick review of this week’s major takeaways:
The major takeaways:
THE FOUR-STAGE COUNSELING PROCESS
1. Identify the need for counseling.
2. Prepare for counseling.
3. Conduct the counseling session.
4. Follow-up.
STAGE 1: IDENTIFY THE NEED FOR COUNSELING
Success depends on the preparatory steps that the counselor takes before the counseling session.
Develop a clear purpose,
Have idea of possible outcomes that are desired.
Be prepared for contingencies
Other important points:
Counseling is an interactive and dynamic process where assessments and follow-on actions come from a trusted exchange between the counselor and individual receiving counseling.
Army and organizational policies may direct the timing or focused elements of a counseling session
Leaders may conduct developmental counseling whenever the need arises for focused, two-way open communication.
For event counseling, the leader must confirm or seek new information and remain open to new assessments of the event and related goals or corrections.
STAGE 2: PREPARE FOR COUNSELING
Things to prepare:
Select a suitable place.
Schedule the time.
Notify the subordinate well in advance.
Outline the components of the counseling session.
Organize information and draft a plan of action.
Plan the counseling strategy.
Establish the right atmosphere
Army leaders may employ three major approaches to counseling:
nondirective
directive
combined.
Techniques leaders may explore during the nondirective or combined approaches include:
Suggesting alternatives. Leader and subordinate together decide which course of action is most appropriate.
Recommending. Recommend one course of action but leave the decision to accept it to the subordinate.
Persuading. Persuade the subordinate that a given course of action is best, but leave the final decision to the subordinate.
Advising. This is the strongest form of influence not involving command.
Techniques to use during the directive approach to counseling include: l
Corrective training. Teach and assist the subordinate in attaining and maintaining the required standard. A subordinate completes corrective training once consistently meeting standards. l
Commanding. Order the subordinate to take a given course of action in clear, precise words. The subordinate will face consequences for failing to execute.
STAGE 3: CONDUCT THE COUNSELING SESSION
Address the four basic components of a counseling session:
Open the session.
Discuss the issues.
Develop a plan of action.
Record and close the session.
Open the Session
Make the purpose clear
Establishes a subordinate-centered setting as appropriate
Invite the subordinate to speak and acknowledge the purpose.
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Discuss the Issues
Develop a mutual and clear understanding of the counseling issues.
Use active listening and invite the subordinate to do most of the talking
Respond and ask questions without dominating the conversation
Adjust understanding of the situation based on the subordinate’s input.
When the issue is substandard performance, clear what did not meet the standard.
Clearly establish what the subordinate must do to meet the standard.
It is very important that the leader frames the issue at hand as substandard performance and prevents the subordinate from labeling the issue as unreasonable.
Develop a Plan of Action
Limit one or two realistic goals tied to work or life events with milestones that allow for monitoring progress.
Must be appropriate and specific, showing the subordinate how to modify or maintain specific behaviors.
Record and Close the Session
A leader always benefits from documenting the main points of a counseling session, even informal ones.
Documentation serves as a ready reference for the agreed-upon plan of action and helps the leader.
DA Form 4856 is designed to help Army leaders conduct and record counseling sessions.
Documentation of substandard actions often conveys a strong message
Army regulations require specific written records of counseling for certain personnel actions
Barring a Soldier from reenlisting,
Processing an administrative separation
Placing a Soldier in the overweight program.
Notably, the ATP 6-22.1 has not (yet) been updated to reflect the new DA4856. However, the new 4856 is dynamic – it changes based on the category of counseling you select and even within the category. An event counseling for substandard performance and one for a crisis get entirely different forms. So, the new form matches the doctrine closer than the old one. See the posted images.
Close The Session

Ask the counseled subordinate to summarize key points and expectations based on the proposed plan of action.
Establish any necessary follow-up measures
Schedule future meetings
STAGE 4: FOLLOW-UP
Leader Responsibilities
Counseling process does not end with the initial counseling session.
Leaders must consistently support their subordinates in implementing the plan of action by:
Teaching
Coaching
Mentoring
providing additional time
referrals
other appropriate resources.
Additional measures may include
More focused follow-up counseling
Informing the chain of command
Taking more severe corrective measures
Assess the Plan of Action
Leader & subordinate jointly determine if the desired results happened.
The plan of action assessment provides useful information for future follow-up counseling sessions
NOW: Take A Deep Dive into The Weekly Quiz: QUIZ 10: The 4-Stage Counseling Process


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